Add Linux systemd support and --install-service/--remove-service flags

The service package now has a Linux implementation alongside the Windows
one: systemd unit install/remove (/etc/systemd/system), readiness
notification (READY=1 via go-systemd) sent only after the listeners are
bound, a 30s watchdog, and STOPPING on shutdown. Listeners are pre-bound
so port conflicts fail fast and the readiness signal is truthful. The
notify calls are no-ops without NOTIFY_SOCKET (containers, shells) and
on non-Linux builds. --install-service/--remove-service work on both
platforms; the 'service install|remove' subcommand remains as an alias.

internal/service/notify_other.go

@@ -0,0 +1,14 @@
+//go:build !linux
+
+package service
+
+import "context"
+
+// NotifyReady is a no-op outside Linux (no systemd notify socket).
+func NotifyReady() {}
+
+// NotifyStopping is a no-op outside Linux.
+func NotifyStopping() {}
+
+// StartWatchdog is a no-op outside Linux.
+func StartWatchdog(context.Context) {}